Quotes
“ Who am I to judge? ”
— Pope Francis , 2013
Religion Male Allies Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: POHP FRAN-siss
He / Him · Pronounced: POHP FRAN-siss
Context Said about gay priests. Read as a softening of tone, though doctrine did not change. Included as an ally standing with the LGBTQ+ community, not a member of it.
“ If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. ”
— Desmond Tutu
Religion Black Global South He / Him · Pronounced: DEZ-mund TOO-too
He / Him · Pronounced: DEZ-mund TOO-too
Context Tutu, an Anglican archbishop who helped end apartheid, on the cost of staying silent.
“ I knew I was going to have to outwork people, I knew I was going to have to outsmart. ”
— Michael Oher , 2023
Sport Male Role Models Black He / Him · Pronounced: MY-kul OH-er
He / Him · Pronounced: MY-kul OH-er
Context Oher, an NFL offensive lineman, on the work ethic that carried him through a difficult upbringing.
“ A hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles. ”
— Christopher Reeve , 1998
Entertainment Male Role Models Disabled He / Him · Pronounced: KRIS-tuh-fer REEV
He / Him · Pronounced: KRIS-tuh-fer REEV
Source: Still Me, autobiography · original link to be verified
Context Reeve, paralysed after a horse-riding accident in 1995, redefining heroism away from physical feats and towards endurance.
Read More: Disability Rights
“ There are three ways to ultimate success: the first way is to be kind, the second way is to be kind, and the third way is to be kind. ”
— Fred Rogers
Entertainment Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: FRED ROJ-erz
He / Him · Pronounced: FRED ROJ-erz
Source: Widely attributed to Rogers; exact original context to be confirmed · original link to be verified
Widely credited to this person; primary source not yet confirmed.
Context Rogers spent decades modelling gentleness and patience to children on Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, at a time when that wasn't seen as a masculine trait.
“ I remember that love conquers fear, always, and that to be a man means accepting myself, weaknesses and all. That's my true superpower. ”
— Terry Crews , 2014
Entertainment Male Role Models Male Allies He / Him · Pronounced: TAIR-ee KROOZ
He / Him · Pronounced: TAIR-ee KROOZ
Context Crews, who has spoken openly about surviving sexual assault, on redefining strength as honesty rather than hardness. Included as both a role model and an ally standing with survivors.
“ Stop talking about it. I'm going to stop calling you a white man. And I'm going to ask you to stop calling me a black man. I know you as Mike Wallace. You know me as Morgan Freeman. ”
— Morgan Freeman , 2005
Entertainment Male Role Models Black He / Him · Pronounced: MOR-gun FREE-mun
He / Him · Pronounced: MOR-gun FREE-mun
Context Freeman, on why he resists being defined by racial labels rather than simply being known as himself.
“ It's not your fault. You didn't do anything wrong. And you can get through this. ”
— Ian Wright , 2021
Sport Male Role Models Black He / Him · Pronounced: EE-un RYTE
He / Him · Pronounced: EE-un RYTE
Context Wright speaking to young people about the abuse he suffered as a child, and about carrying that weight silently for decades before getting help.
“ Fall forward. Every failed experiment is one step closer to success. ”
— Denzel Washington , 2015
Entertainment Male Role Models Black He / Him · Pronounced: den-ZEL WOSH-ing-tun
He / Him · Pronounced: den-ZEL WOSH-ing-tun
Source: Commencement address, Dillard University · original link to be verified
Context Washington on treating setbacks as part of moving forward rather than reasons to stop.
“ Allyship is partnership, and things are always better when we do them together. ”
— Lee Chambers
Business Male Allies Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: LEE CHAYM-berz
He / Him · Pronounced: LEE CHAYM-berz
Widely credited to this person; primary source not yet confirmed.
Context Chambers, a business psychologist and founder of Male Allies UK, on why allyship works best as a joint effort rather than a solo one.
“ Blood, sweat and respect. First two you give, the last one you earn. ”
— Dwayne Johnson , 2012
Entertainment Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: DWAYN JON-sun
He / Him · Pronounced: DWAYN JON-sun
Context Johnson, in his own words, on why respect can't be demanded, only earned.
“ I must find positive outlets for anger or it will destroy me... the highest positive is forgiveness. ”
— Sidney Poitier , 2000
Entertainment Male Role Models Black He / Him · Pronounced: SID-nee pwah-tee-AY
He / Him · Pronounced: SID-nee pwah-tee-AY
Context Poitier, the first Black man to win the Best Actor Oscar, on channelling anger rather than being consumed by it.
“ Being kind is a choice that you can make absolutely every single day. ”
— Tom Hanks , 2019
Entertainment Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: TOM HANKS
He / Him · Pronounced: TOM HANKS
Context Hanks, promoting his role as Fred Rogers, on the choice at the centre of Rogers' philosophy.
“ The process has become so imbalanced that it risks excluding exactly the kind of inclusive, diverse, empathetic, resilient people the industry most needs. ”
— Chris Compston , 2025
Business Male Allies He / Him · Pronounced: KRISS KOMP-stun
He / Him · Pronounced: KRISS KOMP-stun
Context Compston, a former Thoughtworks employee, on how broken tech hiring processes end up filtering out the people the industry needs most.
“ I never thought of being blind as a disadvantage, and I never thought of being black as a disadvantage. I am what I am. I love me! ”
— Stevie Wonder , 2012
Music Male Role Models Disabled Black He / Him · Pronounced: STEE-vee WUN-der
He / Him · Pronounced: STEE-vee WUN-der
Source: The Guardian interview · original link to be verified
Widely credited to this person; primary source not yet confirmed.
Context Wonder, who has been blind since shortly after birth, on refusing to see either part of who he is as a limitation.
Read More: Disability Rights
“ A name is how someone was introduced to the world, it usually carries meaning, often cultural or familial, and getting it wrong is a small persistent signal that you have not thought it worth the effort to get right. ”
— Chris Compston , 2026
Business Male Allies He / Him · Pronounced: KRISS KOMP-stun
He / Him · Pronounced: KRISS KOMP-stun
Context Compston, a product coach, former Thoughtworks employee, and the founder of QuoteThem™, on why getting someone's name right is never a minor detail.
“ Real men don't hurt women. ”
— Barack Obama , 2014
Politics Male Role Models Black He / Him · Pronounced: buh-RAHK oh-BAH-mah
He / Him · Pronounced: buh-RAHK oh-BAH-mah
Source: Remarks for the It's On Us campaign · original link to be verified
Context Obama speaking directly to young men about what strength actually looks like.
Read More: Black Activism
“ I can't wake you up. You can wake you up. I can't cure you. You can cure you. ”
— John Lennon , 1980
Music Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: JON LEN-un
He / Him · Pronounced: JON LEN-un
Context Lennon, in one of his final major interviews, on the limits of what anyone else can do for you.
“ I think ageing is an extraordinary process whereby you become the person that you always should have been. ”
— David Bowie
Music Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: DAY-vid BOH-ee
He / Him · Pronounced: DAY-vid BOH-ee
Widely credited to this person; primary source not yet confirmed.
Context Bowie, reflecting on growing older as becoming more truly himself rather than less.
“ Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. ”
— Fred Rogers , 2003
Entertainment Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: FRED ROJ-erz
He / Him · Pronounced: FRED ROJ-erz
Source: The World According to Mister Rogers · original link to be verified
Context From Rogers' published collection of reflections on kindness and care.
“ I am going to keep saying that I am a feminist until it is met with a shrug. ”
— Justin Trudeau , 2016
Politics Male Allies Male Role Models He / Him · Pronounced: JUS-tin TROO-doh
He / Him · Pronounced: JUS-tin TROO-doh
Widely credited to this person; primary source not yet confirmed.
Context Included as an ally standing with the women's community, not a member of it.