ContextSaid about gay priests. Read as a softening of tone, though doctrine did not change. Included as an ally standing with the LGBTQ+ community, not a member of it.
“ You're trying to take all this misunderstanding and loathing, and you're trying to turn it into love, which is the wonderful thing that happens when you're trying to make music out of the rough, hard, bad things. ”
EntertainmentMale Role ModelsDisabledHe / Him · Pronounced: KRIS-tuh-fer REEV
He / Him · Pronounced: KRIS-tuh-fer REEV
Source: Still Me, autobiography · original link to be verified
ContextReeve, paralysed after a horse-riding accident in 1995, redefining heroism away from physical feats and towards endurance.Read More: Disability Rights
“ I recognize how hard this is for people, and I recognize how hard it is for me. But I have a certain set of skills that allow me to deal with this stuff. And I realized, with gratitude, optimism is sustainable. ”
Widely credited to this person; primary source not yet confirmed.
ContextPizzoni, a chemical engineering professor and winner of the Women's Engineering Society's Men As Allies award, on his working definition of allyship.
“ A name is how someone was introduced to the world, it usually carries meaning, often cultural or familial, and getting it wrong is a small persistent signal that you have not thought it worth the effort to get right. ”
ContextCompston, a product coach, former Thoughtworks employee, and the founder of QuoteThem™, on why getting someone's name right is never a minor detail.
“ The pressure I did feel before matches was self-inflicted. I didn't go out on court there thinking about what was being said in the papers and on TV about me. ”
“ I'm a soccer player, I'm Christian, and I'm gay. Those are things that people might say wouldn't go well together. But my family raised me to be an individual and to stand up for what I believe in. ”
ContextRogers, the first openly gay man to play in a major US men's professional sports league, on being all of who he is at once.Read More: LGBTQ+ Voices
ContextWright speaking to young people about the abuse he suffered as a child, and about carrying that weight silently for decades before getting help.
EntertainmentMale Role ModelsHe / Him · Pronounced: FRED ROJ-erz
He / Him · Pronounced: FRED ROJ-erz
Source: Widely attributed to Rogers; exact original context to be confirmed · original link to be verified
Widely credited to this person; primary source not yet confirmed.
ContextRogers spent decades modelling gentleness and patience to children on Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, at a time when that wasn't seen as a masculine trait.